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    From the moment you wake up in the morning till the time you crawl into bed…I know you feel alone and scared and sad.  And even angry.

    When my husband walked out the door and told me he is never coming back, I made a promise with God, “Help me bring my husband home and I will quit my job and teach and coach others to do what I did. 

    So I give YOU what I desperately wanted and needed when I was in your shoes.  

    With the Big Man’s help, I made it through the roughest, darkest time in my entire life…it really is a miracle. And I get to see others have them every day!

    All day…all night.  (I’ve been known to stay up till 4am with a suicidal wife and even drove 7 hours to meet with another wife to help her.)

    It’s what I do. I care. I really and truly care about YOU.

    Click here and let’s set up a time to talk.

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    Here is What We Do:

    1. Sign up for my videos. Commit to my process. My videos will help you more than anything on this planet. 
    2. Come to Group Classes. With the video membership, you get to come to my Group Coaching Classes! In all your hell going on – this is a fun 90 mins! And we meet every two weeks – two times every month!  
      Bonus from Coming to Group Classes: I break you off to talk alone with others – then you can get their phone number/emails with the women you meet to form ASP’s “Angel Support Pods!” consisting of 2 or 4 people. I do not like 3’s.  Cause there is always a chance someone may feel left ‘out’ and when you are working with me – that is NOT AN OPTION.  Why “Angel?”  Because having a person to connect with – practicing what I teach with each other, you become an angel to each other! 
    3. Text me or email me “Need Time Today” or “Need time this week.”  And then you are talking to me!  (And Yes!!  You get my very personal cell phone number to book calls with me!) (If you can hold of on weekends unless you really really really need me! I’d be so grateful. ❤️❤️)
    4. Strategize:  There is a general path and there is a unique path that is personal to you.  That’s what our calls do. Narrows exactly what you do, what you say, what you think and how you feel.  
    5. Connect with others just like you! I am not on Facebook, but I do have my own community area on my video program!  Where you can write your story and have others comment or you can read theirs!  I have a couple of girls monitoring this area who have been amazingly helpful. 
    6. Texting.  If you text with him and want to move the needle fast.  Sign up for texting with me and be amazed!  (Email me to sign up!)
    7. Trust me: Don’t be offended when I say: “Your story is not that special.” It’s the same as others. It’s what YOU do about it that makes it special! You know I’ve been through this too. I have walked in your shoes and I know it sucks.  SUCKS.  And now I have worked with thousands (1,000’s) of husbands and wives going through exactly what you face right now. Trust me. It’s the same thing. So if I suggest or push you to do something, trust me.  
    8. ABL:  Always be learning.  Sign up for my podcast, my website, YouTube channel and then…. watch the movies I suggest, read the books I suggest (and more!) and then come on a trip with us!  
    9. Let’s go!! Let’s go learn together and have fun! It’s okay to have fun right now! 

    And always: Love. Love is always the answer. Always.


    This is hell.

    I talk to women every day to help them navigate this Midlife Crisis.

    Do not be a victim.

    Do not let your kids suffer.

    I will show you a way to stop his affair and bring him back, so that he falls in love with you again.

    The amazing wives I help every single day…are PROOF that what I do…what I teach…works.

    There is power in hope, forgiving and simply believing things will work out for your marriage and that he WILL come home.

    No fear!  
    Let’s Crush fear!

    Check out my Testimonials to read actual real in the moment texts from my many wives and husbands who love what I do for them!



    When He Left…

    I knew I wanted him back.
    But how?
    All I could think about was: How do I get him away from his affair partner?
    What do I do to bring him home?
    How do I even know he will come home?

    Everyone told me: “Forget him!” “Screw him!”
    But I couldn’t. I wanted him back. I wanted him home.

    NO ONE Understood, no one could help me. I felt so alone…so abandoned…but I never gave up. On him, on my family, on me.

    Never Ever Ever Give Up:

    NEVER give up. That’s hard to do. This is why I started this site…because no one understood me. And I knew what I needed and now I deliver that to so so many wives.


    Is “Standing” Worth It?

    You will have pain no matter if you go or if you stand.
    One leads to division, the other leads to love. 

    You made a promise to love a man…he is lost…will you be lost too? 
    Or will you hold true to your promise?

    When we finally understand…amid all of his horrible decisions, as an “insane crazy man.”
    We learn, we see. 

    Then when I remind you who you are and teach you how to show him what you are made of..
    you will have accomplished the greatest challenge of your life time!

    Was it worth it for me?  Hell yeah!  I can’t wait to meet you!