5 Reasons To Tell Someone They Are Sexy!


I walked past Mr. Sexy and stopped.  His dark blue eyes were so penetrating I had to do something.  So I spoke, “Excuse me…I am struck by something and have to share this with you…I’m married and happy, but I just wanted you to know you have the most sexiest eyes I’ve ever seen!”

He practically fell over and his face turned red before a huge smile appeared on his face.  I knew he was grateful or just needed to hear something good.  Then I turned and walked away.

So there…let’s start with #1 of the 5 Reasons To Be Brave and Tell Someone They Are Sexy:

  1. It’s From A Bigger Source:  “Someone Else Made Me Do It”
    Just maybe this random compliment/thought came into your head because God wanted you to say something to this person.  He needed you to be vehicle for him to share a word of kindness, goodness, to a person struggling.  Maybe?  And you did.  And that person was impacted.  You have no idea what is going on insides someone’s head, and for a moment, a teeny tiny moment, you reminded a person of something good they have to offer the world.

2. Marriage has Nothing To Do It:
In fact when you are married you have more freedom to say what you want without reservation because You are indeed married and partnered with another.  Freedom abounds!  When you open your mouth to share a compliment with another, you are a person sharing information with another person.  You call it as you see it.  Just because you are married or not married doesn’t mean you can’t tell someone they are attractive or beautiful or kind or special.  That is our own bologna going on inside our head.  Life is open…your mouth is for positives or negatives. You choose. Say yes to anything you are on the fence about – let nothing hold you back unless it’s dangerous or can put you in harms way.  So then, when you finally decide to get married, you know you are ready.  You know you are done.  Because you will have tried everything out there, you now know the right one when he or she comes along!

2a) Side Note To All Married Ones:
You can look and flirt and giggle all you want.  Just don’t touch.  Cause the truth is, you have your partner that you decided to chose and stay committed to.  So accept, love and focus on the one you are with and the great things you are blessed with in your life!  Then looking and sharing compliments are fun and life fulfilling because you are safe and it is just for fun.

3) It’s FREE:
Guess how much it costs to be kind?  Nothing.  It’s free!!  There is ZERO cost to being kind.  Zero.  I absolutely love telling a man or a woman that they are sexy, beautiful, kind, sweet.  Because there is no threat to anyone and it doesn’t cost me a penny!  I’m just being kind and honest!  And the best part????  Think about how you make them feel??  Like a rock hard superstar!  No one tells each other kind things anymore!  We all may  “think” it but it’s fear that holds them back.  Fear of what the other (the compliment) will think of them for saying something. Will they think I’m making a pass?  Will they think I’m weird?  Stop.  No one cares about you.  And no one will think you are weird if you give them a compliment unless you stand there drooling or with your tongue hanging by your chin.  If anyone does think weird of you, that’s sad.  And well…it’s their problem, not yours.  I have friend who when they do get complimented, they roll their eyes.  That is no ones fault but their own.  So please, I beg you, share your positive feelings!!  Compliment away!

4) You Bring Beauty onto A Human Level: 
I had someone say to me once, “Yes…I don’t tell beautiful people compliments because they already know how good looking they are!  If you tell them they are hot, they will get a big head!”  Maybe. Maybe not.  Maybe they don’t know it.  Maybe they do.  Maybe they are insecure?  Or maybe they are so good looking no one else tells them?  But the bottom line is: Who really cares?  It’s a compliment.  That you saw and thought.  So when you do share your kind compliment, you have made them feel fantastic.  So why, oh please tell me, why is that a bad thing?  Sometimes we see pretty people as in another league as our own.  Saying something nice to someone on another ‘level’ brings you up to that level, just by speaking to them! YOU ARE WORTHY!!!  You ARE WORTHY!!!

5) YOU Feel GREAT!
God says we should go forth to love and be kind to one another.  If being kind means sharing that you think someone is hot, sexy or just has a cute haircut?  Proclaim away! It’s so much better to spread joy and love than hatred and anger.  And your good comments to make another feel good will be passed on…again and again!

See the video below to know what to do when YOU get a compliment!!

Imagine a world like that???

Right now, I can see you through this page – you are awesome!

Just because you are here, on my site and sharing in the joy and insights I like to bring you, you are special!

Pass it on!
In truth, we are all sexy!

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Marriage Advice From Long Ago…

I am here for you, to help.  Email me any time with questions, problems, interview suggestions or article ideas you want me to do, tape, write about and post here.  Or if you have a gathering you’d like me to speak to.  Be it a women’s group, church gathering, or other function.  Let’s bring marriage back to a place of kindness, teamwork and love.  What we do passes on to all generations.
Help make that positive change today.
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