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"I love you, but I'm not in love with you..." "I never loved you..." "You forced me into marriage long ago..." "I only stay here with you because of the kids!" "We're roommates..." "We've grown apart..." "You never really loved me..." That's what they say. Do you know I say? "BULLSHYT." Come journey with me....let me hold your hand...teach you a bunch of things all while keeping you sane and saving your family! xo Laurie

Happiness Study Harvard 80 Years Long

In 1938, Harvard scientists began tracking the health of 268 Harvard sophomores. (JFK, the president, was included in this class!) That study has since included spouses and offspring. What did they find??  Well I copied the...
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How Differences Help A Marriage

The Differences in Marriage are the reasons you came together...they are also the reasons you fall apart. "Why do you want to divorce?"  Gets the same cliche answer: "Oh...gosh...we are just so different..." My single response...
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Why Always Having To Be Right is Really Wrong…

Mark was driving our little car pool to the wedding.  A church we've all been to at least 73 times a year.  Just as we come to the stop sign, Judy, his wife, barks...
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What To Do With The Other Woman (Besides Kill Her.)

What To Do With The Other Woman (Besides Kill Her.) Ugh. I hate this title. Makes me sick actually. Cause you know you won't kill her because it's not worth going to jail cause then your hubby would...
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Avoid The Shitty Wife Syndrome

If you have landed here...you can clearly see and read I have tons of advice for you as a wife trying to figure out how to keep your marriage from crashing. (Some annoying, some funny)...
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Best Marriage Advice After 41 years Marriage

Best Marriage Advice After 41 years Married His name was GL Murray..and his Marriage Advice comes after 41 year Married He was tall, black, proud and very very handsome.  Funny too.  As he spoke his words...
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Marriage Is A Garden, Weed It or It Dies

Marriage is like a garden, weed it or it will die. If you give something zero attention it fades. If you nurture, love and take care of your marriage, it will grow. Sure you will have shitty...
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What To Do When He Disrespects You In Front Of Your Kids

What To Do When He Disrespects You In Front Of Your Kids? First of all, I'm sorry.  If you are here on this article, I'm so sorry.  It does not feel good to have a...

How to Respect Your Husband

At least once a day one of my wives I coach will ask me, "He wants respect!?!?!?! How do I respect my husband, when he doesn't deserve respect?!?!?"
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Do I Wear My Wedding Ring When I Am Separated?

I get this question all the time. And it was the one I struggled with as well. Often. He was with his girlfriend! ...UGH! Ring off!...