Remember: Punishment is not your problem.
If you say it, then it sounds like “Not my problem” Now, let’s abbreviate it to a simple “NMP”.
Not my problem.
“Not my problem” is not in any way saying anything in a mean or angry way. HELL NO!!!!
This statement is one of a loving, understanding and really and truly accepting that you-can’t-control-him-in-any-way. He is not YOUR problem.
If you believe in God, you know, he has this. He’s got the wheel. He’s is going to take care of your husband so you don’t have to. All you have to do is let go.
In the meantime…he lets you just be you. And all you have to do is be FREE….to forgive and not punish him.
You are FREE to just be you! A new you. The best you! The BEST version of you!
A wife sent me this and I had to share it. Sometimes the right thing pops up on your phone at just the right time.
BE YOU!! THE BEST YOU THAT YOU CAN BE!
Let go! Let God! (I wrote that in black sharpie on my wrist every day for months during the time my hubby was AWOL.) (When I find the photo I actually took of my wrist back then I will post it here. And I will find it….)
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