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MidLife Crisis

There is little that compares to watching a man you love fall victim to the fantom Midlife Crisis. Especially when you are faced with a dis-believing family and friends who push you to divorce. If you choose to stand...then you have found your home. But you're not going to cave like a doormat, NOPE!!! Time to rise up and face the biggest challenge you will ever stand up to! This is not for the weak dear readers, this is for the women who know the difference between right and wrong, commitment and cowardice....victimhood and forgiveness.

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What She Said to Midlife Crisis Husband

One of my girls (aka wives I'm coaching) is allowing me to share a text she sent to her husband on New Years Day. After working with her...
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Midlife Crisis Spouse Must Love Self

When he is stuck and wandering the earth, you must keep going. When it happened to me, I struggled to get out of bed each and every...

What a Midlife Crisis Man Thinks

What a Midlife Crisis Man Thinks is not what he is on the outside. NO ONE knows what is going on inside anyone's mind. Ever.  Even if we ask - we could get a bunch...

Farewell My Beloved

As a Marriage and wife coach, I take an oath of confidentiality.  Period.  The other day, one of my beautiful wives ("standing" for husband), shared the poem below. I was blown away that she...
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Why No One Understands When Your Husband has Left

Why No One Understands When Your Husband has Left...what to do, how to treat you, or what to say.  They are all clueless and their reaction makes it so much worse. Jennifer's husband came home...
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What to Do When He Wants to Leave

What to do when He Wants to Leave is a list made up from girls who, like me, have been there when he (their husband) have said (outloud) that he wants to leave the...
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How Our Ego Kills Relationships

It lives inside all of us.  It can take over and control our actions.  And if we aren't careful, whom ever we are loving, it can kill our relationship and destroy that too...our Ego....
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What Does “I Love You But I’m Not In Love With You” Really Mean?

When my husband said "I love you but I'm not in love with you..." in June of 2013, I was sure my life was over.   He was calm, happy and secure that he had found...